Language is vital, it allows babies to communicate and express themselves besides helping them to think and be creative. Babies have got this gift by birth from crying to cooing to blabbering a few words and gradually expanding their vocabulary from 200 words in first year to almost double 500 words in second and by age three, average toddler vocabulary has expanded to almost 1000 words.
Even though this process is quite natural, but as parents we can do quite a bit on our part to develop interest and help them expand their vocabularies.
Here are few tips for same:
Expand Experiences: Long before babies began to speak they buildup receptive vocabularies, storing concepts and words in their heads. In order to stimulate this further expose your child to variety of environments such as Playground, Supermarket, day to day activities, going to zoo, amusement parks and many such places so that they can understand as much as possible at their end.
Talk and Sing with your baby: After one year of age make it a habit to talk to your toddler for an hour daily, irrespective of the fact that he may not respond at all and its one sided conversation. Show your baby sky, birds trees, flowers while you are strolling through park, tell baby about his body parts while talking bath and changing his clothes. Any activity that you both are doing together, just explain him, while doing this we can even explain concept of waiting in a queue, Saying hello, good bye, thank you and sorry. The list is endless and you know better now how to go further on this.
Introduce to rhymes and songs at this stage bring audio or video CDs of nursery rhymes, short stories and some educative CDs. Babies naturally love music and this will give them opportunity to know their likings and help you to understand his interest better. Trust me this will become their favorite past time as well.
Read to your baby: This may seem little unrealistic at this stage, but kids love to hear stories and reading them out also help developing interest in reading books. Also bring books with beautiful pictures, which are visually attractive and help baby expand his vocabulary as well. Details on books are given in Books section above for each stage.
Never mimic toddlers words: Its general tendency to speak in toddlers cute words (mum- water, thank-you - ta-to) and similar such adorable words, but its advisable to control this temptation and use correct words to make sure that kids learn the correct words and start speaking them naturally when they learn to speak.
Listen carefully to baby: At this stage toddlers are struggling to explain you things and feeling frustrated if you don't understand, so pay attention to what your little one is saying and make genuine effort to understand. This will not only help you to communicate better but also help your baby to minimize his frustration of not able to communicate at this stage. Also, once you have understood your baby say it in words to get affirmation from baby and surely a sign that you care.
Ask Questions: Toddlers can always answer basic need questions with a nod (yes or no) and more with a grunt to show complete disinterest, so always ask questions "Are you thirsty ?" or "You need water ?" , "You need food, watch a movie wanna play ?" . This followed by actions will actually expand his vocabulary and he'll know what to say for his needs, and you will be surprised to hear him rattling one day with words like movie , tv .
Act as translator: Toddlers reach a stage when they want to speak but their ascent and lacks of words hinder so they'll use few words to explain the whole experience, whenever your toddler is telling you some experience, listen very carefully, giving attention is quite important and once understood , reframe and repeat it in simple words to make sure you understood what happened, besides expanding his vocabulary at same time.
Get your words worth: This simple technique expects to elaborate every things your are explaining to your toddler, like when you go to park, tell your toddler about trees, leaves and flowers and add "This is a Rose flower, its red in color and it smells good", Similarly tell them "look at the bird in the sky. Its eagle and its flying high".
Start teaching manners: Toddlers at this stage are learning from their parents, and follow the way you talk among yourself and to others. Make a habit of introducing words like "Thank you", "Sorry", "Please", "Hello" and "Bye". This technique works wonders and makes you feel proud when you see your toddler saying "Thank you" to stranger when offered something.
Last but not the least you are the best judge and choose how to communicate with your toddler, but don't forget to praise your child to praise him saying "Very Good" or "Excellent" or "Awesome" when he speaks correct word, or do some good activity, this encouragement is best enforcement technique for the toddler to do things that you like because always remember at this stage, your toddler wants to make sure that you are happy with him, so use this praising to raise a happy child. Trust me kids love to see their parents praising them with smile and claps and make sure they do such things again. I've seen these techniques work wonders with my baby.
Sheetal Kalra
Gustav Davidson